Ok so I'm 13 and I don't know if I hit puberty yet. I don't have arm pitt hair but I have a bit of "pubes" but my penis is still quite small its not how big I want it to be its really small. Why? Can someone help me please?

You are only 13, so you have plenty of time ahead of you to mature.

Are guys in the locker room showing off? Ignore them or anything you read about girls/women liking it "big." It's not that way at all.

Why are you concerned about size?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

You are only 13, so you have plenty of time ahead of you to mature.

Are guys in the locker room showing off? Ignore them or anything you read about girls/women liking it "big." It's not that way at all.

Why are you concerned about size?

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Cause I want to be able to have sex when I'm older, and I don't understand why I didn't hit puberty. Is there a reason?

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Originally Posted by SkiLLeRz1

Cause i want to be able to have sex when im older, and i dont understand why i didnt hit puberty. Is there a reason?

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Puberty comes whenever it comes. It will come your way too. It sounds like it has begun already. And "big" means nothing, is not important for sex.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Puberty comes whenever it comes. It will come your way too. It sounds like it has begun already. And "big" means nothing, is not important for sex.

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How do you know if I did began I didn't even know and thank you

It sounds like your pubic area is developing. If you are concerned about where you are in puberty, visit your doctor and ask him these questions.

Are you comparing yourself to other boys your age? If so, stop.

Kiddo, you're only 13, give yourself some time. You're still growing, and so is the rest of your body.

As for size, really, it doesn't matter. When you're older (you're really way too young to be thinking about sex now) if you don't grow to the size you want, I can promise you it won't make any difference when it comes to sex.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

It sounds like your pubic area is developing. If you are concerned about where you are in puberty, visit your doctor and ask him these questions.

Are you comparing yourself to other boys your age? If so, stop.

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Yeah kind of and its just cause I don't know what normal size that its supposed to be. Thank you a lot Wondergirl

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Originally Posted by SkiLLeRz1

Yeah kinda and its just cause i dont know what normal size that its supposed to be. Thank you a lot Wondergirl

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Normal size is what you are.

Want to know a secret about women and sex? Women don't care about size. They make love with their minds and all their senses. They want to be cuddled and loved and touched lovingly on their faces and hands and necks and want to be treated with honesty and respect. Too many men have never learned this or deny it's true. We roll our eyes at each other when guys talk about how big they are. If they only knew how stupid that sounds to us!

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Normal size is what you are.

Want to know a secret about women and sex? Women don't care about size. They make love with their minds and all their senses. They want to be cuddled and loved and touched lovingly on their faces and hands and necks and want to be treated with honesty and respect. Too many men have never learned this or deny it's true. We roll our eyes at each other when guys talk about how big they are. If they only knew how stupid that sounds to us!

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Wow wondergirl and alty for helping I will do as u say about with the cuddling and stuff. But is it true a lot of weight comes off cause of puberty?

You have just started puberty and in time it will get bigger. It also depends on your father. It depends on the genes of the male members of your family.
You might get some increase in size in six months so be patient as it will
Surprise you real soon. Good luck.