So me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 7 months... she is going to be leaving for college in late June. She will be attending west point in New York.. thats the school you go to to become and officer.. now we decided to try and make it through this. visiting here and there when theirs time and she will be living with me on her vacations and time off... but will it really last? We love each other and love is patient... but with the military interference I don't know if she'll be able to hold on, or if I should just leave and get a new girl... help?

Her school is tough, she will have little free time. But any relationship can work if you want it to, it just depends on how much you want it.

BUT... since you said, should I just leave and get a new girl, that tells me you are not that dedicated or it would not even be a question, So with that said, it makes me have some doubts

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Originally Posted by AnthonyJay

so me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 7 months...she is going to be leaving for college in late june. she will be attending west point in new york..thats the school you go to to become and officer.. now we decided to try and make it through this. visiting here and there when theirs time and she will be living with me on her vacations and time off...but will it really last? we love eachother and love is patient...but with the military interference i don't know if she'll be able to hold on, or if i should just leave and get a new girl....help?

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I have a friend that has a boyfriend that lives in a complety different country. She's in holland and she's in the states and their still going strong after a year. I say if its meant to be it will work you just have to give it a chance first and if things are going good then obvioulsy its time for things to end. Good luck and I hope it all works out for you!