Hello,

I have a few questions on male sexuality.

As I understood from one of my former partners, it is pretty much always OK (physically that is) to touch the male genitals. Is this true for most men? To me, it is not pleasant if a man touches me down there before I am turned on. Fingering and such does not turn me on; it's only pleasant when I am already turned on. Is this different for men? Can I just start touching him, or is different 'foreplay' needed.

And secondly, when a man has a hard on, does this mean he is ready for intercourse? I can see morning stiffness is a likely exception, but what about during sex? Is he ready when it is ready, or does it take more?

Many thanks in advance!

How old are you?

Yeah an age would be appropriate before delving into answering this.

There is no one answer, these need to be discussed with your partner, as you "don't like to be touched there" other women do. So all sexual actions are discussed with partner as to what they like.