So I like my guy friend but he likes one of my friend. My friend knows I'm into my guy friend but I don't think she really cares. She tries to hide it from me. Everyone thinks that him and I would be so cute together. I developed a lot of feelings for him. He also just recently found out I liked him but he still acts cool. What should I do? Should I just leave it or should I just try?

Um... if he's more into her than you... deal with it... you aren't wearing his ring or raising his kid.

Right now he's fair game... and just because YOU may have an interest... don't mean everyone else has to back off... because honestly... you admitted he's not that into you in that way. Your words.

Male friend doesn't always lead to boy friend much less husband.

I see the beginnings of Jealousy and possessive and controlling behavior here from you... you want to curb them now.. because they are not endearing to guys. Not beyond college anyway.

Ok first of all learn to have respect. I didn't need some jackass answer. Second of all you don't need to be judgemental you don't know me. Third I didn't say he was mine yes every girl does get a little jealous here and there but that doesn't mean I'm calling him mine. Another thing is I know male friend doesn't have to turn into boyfriend I have a ton of guy friends. Whati can't like a friend?? It happens all the time hun. Thanks for you lousy opinion anyway.

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Originally Posted by superstar18

Ok first of all learn to have respect. I didn't need some jackass answer. Second of all you don't need to be judgemental you don't know me. Third i didn't say he was mine yes every girl does get a little jealous here and there but that doesn't mean im calling him mine. Another thing is I know male friend doesn't have to turn into boyfriend i have a ton of guy friends. Whati can't like a friend??? It happens all the time hun. Thanks for you lousy opinion anyways.

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Man YOU are a rude one... and talk about WHO is the judgemental one... You just proved to EVERYONE what I was only Hinting at... beyond any shadow of a doubt. I suspected as much... but you just proved it beyond any shadow of a doubt.

Enjoy your life alone. What are you anyway 16 years old? You just aren't mature enough to hear the truth... because I was right about every single word I said... DEAL WITH IT. Because if you were such an authority on the subject... YOU wouldn't be here asking.

If you want someone to agree with you... so you feel better about bad behaviour... talk to your mommy... I'm telling you what you NEED to hear.

Incidentally ALL women don't have a jealous streak in them... Because I married one that doesn't... and I dated more than a few that didn't for 15 years before then.

He likes her, not you. You said it yourself. So what do you do? Back off and find someone that likes you.

You "just leave it." He is into your friend not you. Just because you might "look cute toghether " doesn't mean you are right for each other. Save yourself embarrassment, leave him alone.

Find a guy that ONLY likes you, and won't care how other girls or think or what ever. But I'm sorry superstar18 I really don't think he is into you like you are into him. Most guys when they find out a girl likes them, they sort of act different in a way. I would say leave it be, because then you won't hurt as much. Just be a friend :)

Thanks sweetpea for the nice comment. I.guess that's all I can do is be a good friend to him. Ill just let it go.