My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 12days.he loves to hug people but we haven't hugged at all and he hugs my friend Raygen and destiny but not me his boyfriend before we dated I asked him who he liked and he said me and some girl named Natalie.he barley talks to me he always talked to destiny and he kind of flirts with her and he can't see that it makes me sad and mad I don't think he likes me like destiny because we don't hug and we barley talk but he talks to destiny and he hugs Raygen.one day he was cold and hugged Raygen and she pushed him away and his friend said why don't u hug your girlfriend and he said I don't like hugs.but I do but not by some people but me and him are dating so why doesn't he hug me?

How would we know? The person who knows is your boyfriend. Have you talked to him about it?

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Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

How would we know? The person who knows is your boyfriend. Have you talked to him about it?

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I try but he won't tell me I sometimes cry about it when we talk and he puts his arm around me and says its OK but it is totally not OK

He's making you sad. How can that be a boyfriend?
He flirts, he hugs every girl but you. How can that be a boyfriend?
Show some guts and break up with him. Practice now, because if you go through life miserable with one guy after another, waiting and wondering why he is why he is, then you won't learn to be your own proud woman.

You aren't dating, just school kids trying to play adults. I mean who has a boyfriend they can't talk to? How old are you 13,or 14? Dating isn't seeing each other in school, class, and the playground at lunch.

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Originally Posted by joypulv

He's making you sad. How can that be a boyfriend?
He flirts, he hugs every girl but you. How can that be a boyfriend?
Show some guts and break up with him. Practice now, because if you go through life miserable with one guy after another, waiting and wondering why he is why he is, then you won't learn to be your own proud woman.

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Thx and you are right he should not be treating me like this

Why not follow your own advice. Not that I agree with it, but hey, you seem to know what to tell other people to do in situations like this, so why not take your own advice?

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Don't ask sis just go for it and don't be shy he will understand and he is in your hands

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Originally Posted by Alty

Why not follow your own advice. Not that I agree with it, but hey, you seem to know what to tell other people to do in situations like this, so why not take your own advice?

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Yea

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Originally Posted by talaniman

You aren't dating, just school kids trying to play adults. I mean who has a boyfriend they can't talk to? How old are you 13,or 14? Dating isn't seeing each other in school, class, and the playground at lunch.

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Im 23

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Originally Posted by Emstmc

Im 23

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LMAO! Ya, and I'm the queen of England.

If you are 23 why is this in the teen forum? Sounds like 12-14 year old stuff to me.
Break up with the guy. He does not treat you very nice.