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  • Mar 2, 2013, 11:20 AM
    Junior4204
    Why is this girl ignoring me? Or is she just playing me?
    Everything has been great with this girl up to this point. We have been talking for a little over two months now and she said she loved me first and I said it back I mean we both like the same stuff. We both hate the same stuff. We couldn't be more perfect for each other! Things have been moving very fast and I don’t mind that at all, LOL, but today she posted this on face book" being single is good, for me, no lies, no drama, no nothing" and she hasn't texted me back all day.

    I called her today and she put me on hold for 10 minutes and then she hung up on me and then texted me " hey love text me because I'm doing some ****". So I did and she stop texting. So after 1 hr. With no reply I texted her again and still no reply yet.

    Why is she ignoring me? So I don’t understand why she would put that if we are talking and she just has been ignoring me we don’t text like we use to, and when I called her today she didn’t sound all that excited to talk to me like she use to.
  • Mar 2, 2013, 01:00 PM
    joypulv
    TEXTING! Ugh. What is this world coming to? Non-stop texting. It's brain-numbing, boring, stultifying, annoying, petty, privacy-invading. It ruins relationships. What do you like to do in your time alone? Video games, sports, driving down a winding road? If someone were constantly texting me while doing my thing, I'd go nuts or kill someone.

    There's a saying: Give Me Some Space.

    As for why she is busy, or ignoring you, or whatever is going on - how would we total strangers know? Let her be. She told you to text her. You did (and should have stopped at once). As for her remark on Facebook, there you have it. She likes being single, so accept it. You have no choice. Start looking at other options, or keep busy without a girlfriend at the moment if it's over. Maybe you were after her too much.
  • Mar 2, 2013, 03:56 PM
    talaniman
    If all you are doing is talking and texting for two months, then what do you expect from her? You want more, then ask her in person for more, otherwise when he has time cool, if not then too bad.

    I love you is not a commitment to be a girlfriend. Be it through text, Facebook, or in person.

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