Taken in hand website what does it mean?

The expression 'take in hand' means: To lead; to conduct; as, to take a child to church. (I) To carry; to convey; to deliver to another; to hand over; as, he took the book to the bindery.

I don't know what you mean by 'website' can you give us a link so we can take a look at possibly give you an expanation. I didn't find any website such as this.

I do not know which website you are referring to. But, very generally speaking, in relationships it refers to one partner being the alpha/leader and the other person following (putting their needs second to the leaders.)

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