How can I handle my relationship with my younger girlfriend and how can I be sure that she really loves me despite of our difference in age.how can I remove all my doubts that someday she will leave me.

Your ages would help us give you better answers.

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Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

Your ages would help us give you better answers.

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I'm 48 and she's 28 years old..

Thanks,
giantxtc

Honestly,what I feel now is I want to live the rest of my life with her.I've already discussed it with her earlier this afternoon.. her response is "it's ok".what should I think.. is she really serious with our relationship?just a brief backround.she's separated with her ex though they have 2 kids,she and her kids are now living with her ex's parents.

She is separated, but not yet divorced?

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Originally Posted by giantxtc

honestly,what i feel now is i want to live the rest of my life with her.i've already discussed it with her earlier this afternoon..her response is "it's ok".what should i think..is she really serious with our relationship?just a brief backround.she's separated with her ex though they have 2 kids,she and her kids are now living with her ex's parents.

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Her kids should be her priority at this point in her life. She is only separated and has no business making a future when she is still married.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

She is separated, but not yet divorced?

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They are not married..

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Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

Her kids should be her priority at this point in her life. She is only separated and has no business making a future when she is still married.

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She's not married with her ex.. can you please give me an advice?sort of an assurance that this girl is also serious with our relationship.actually,she just slept with me yesterday.I'm just anxious right now because she's currently on a nightshift so we're not seeing each more often.and I really missed her a lot..

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Originally Posted by giantxtc

sort of an assurance that this girl is also serious with our relationship.

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No one can give you an assurance. Even couples together for 30 years have no assurance.

Why did you sleep with her so soon? That is not good.

I am not being mean here but I need to know... how do you think you can come on here and ask us if she is serious about your relationship? We don't know her. We don't know you... there is no way in the world we could know this answer. If you don't know, how do we?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

No one can give you an assurance. Even couples together for 30 years have no assurance.

Why did you sleep with her so soon? That is not good.

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I'm sorry but actually yesterday is not the first time that we did some intimate things together.and also one of the reason why I asked her to make love with me is bcoz I think if she make love with me I'm pretty sure that she really love me too.is saying all what I feel about her wrong?I mean I just want to have a peace of mind that's why I keep on telling her what I feel about her.my officemate told me that I don't have to show so much love and affection she might under rate me.

Thanks,
giantxtc