The line between NC and being the fun guy?
I don't understand...
Most people here seem to support NC as a way to heal and get over a relationship, though some stories confuse me as to when NC should start or stop.
How should I know when to ignore her and when I should take her up on her offers to see her and be the "fun guy"? Once I have started no contact, should I keep it that way, or once she starts to contact me should I see where I can get by being mysterious and worry free about the entire relationship.
For anyone who knows LostGuy's story, this is what confused me. I assumed No contact was the best way to get over this relationship, though it seems he was told to be the fun guy and go out, but be mysterious... How do I know what to do?
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