I can't get over my girlfirends past! She has slept with over 30 men. Has had threesomes and even slept with a girl. I love her to pieces but I'm considering leaving because I can't take the tought of it. Please help

If you can't handle it, get out. It's none of your business what her past life was like. It has made her who she is and you say you are in love with her. Get over it or move on.

What's your past? Does... 5 people make you a saint? 6,7,8?
Look at it this way. She chooses you now, after all that. I'd consider that a compliment.

But never mind. Teacherjenn is right - leave if you are so upset. Wear a tee shirt that shows how many girlfriends you have had and say you want someone with the same number of boyfriends, no 3somes and no same sex. Or hand out brochures. Good grief.

(Oh and by the way - half of them will be lying about their past. You may never know.)

This is something that comes up way too often and it's always the same... some judgmental person judging their partner for something that happened before they were even together. If you can't deal with it then it's your problem, not hers. You say you love her but clearly you don't. If you did, this wouldn't be an issue for you. Do her a favor and leave her.

Totally agree with the other posters. Regardless of her past her past isn't going to change. So be judgment and allow her to find someone better than you.