Hi I am 19 and my best friend's sister has just turnd 15 and she somehow got my nomber and has been text me saying she loves me and needs me and loads of things like that now I don't want to say where to go because she is my best mates sister and I get on with her quite well what is a good way to tell her to lay off


HELP PLEASE :(

Just expain to her that you are not interested in her in that way... also tell her that there are plenty of guys out there for her when she gets older... just be nice about it.

Ye I did tell her loads of reasons we couldn but she just won't get the point I must admit she is persistent I have considered just saying I am in a relationship but I am a bad actor and would feel stupid

It might be nicer to say you wouldn't feel comfortable dating a friends sister and don't want to deal with the possibility that if things don't go well that you will no longer be friends. Say you want to be friends with her too and don't want to betray your friends trust.

Tell her the truth and stop answering her texts. Hard as it my seem cut the contact until she gets the message.

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Originally Posted by phoenix1664

Hi i am 19 and my best friend's sister has just turnd 15 and she somehow got my nomber and has been txt me saying she loves me and needs me and loads of things like that now i dont want to jus say where to go cos she is my best mates sister and i get on with her quite well what is a good way to tell her to lay off


HELP PLEASE :(

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Well the first thing you can't do is ask her and her best mate for a 3sum because if you do that your just plane sick o wait a min you have you sick sick puppy, jesus don't love you any more lol

Lots of love taff

I wouldn't respond to every single text message she sends you. I would also be honest with her. There's no sense in leading a girl on at this age, and even replying to a text that she sends can lead her on. Girls this age are very impressionable and fragile, so be honest, but nice. All things can be said in such a way that they are not hurtful.

I think your friend will understand, too.

Good luck.