Hi I was seeing this guy for about 3 months and it just ended suddenly he told me it was cause he hasn't got over his ex she really broke his heart and he was getting to attached to me and wasn't ready for it we are still friends now I can feel that there is something between us and I can tell he dose to I think he's a bit shy he wouldn't tell me if he wanted to go further once again I'm bit confused:confused: :(

Do you think that him and his ex are still seeing each other? Or does he have that hope of going back. Many exes go through those emotions. Maybe he is afraid to get any closer to you because of what he went through. I would say just keep it at friends level if you want but I would not push the idea of having it continue furher.

Joe

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Originally Posted by Jesushelper76

Do you think that him and his ex are still seeing each other? Or does he have that hope of going back. Many exes go through those emotions. Maybe he is afraid to get any closer to you because of what he went through. I would say just keep it at friends level if you want but I would not push the idea of having it continue furher.

Joe

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His ex girlfriend lives in the main land so they don't see each other but they do talk on the phone and she dose have a partner

Not worth getting into a relationship whilst the person still has baggage. Keep it friends but if you find yourself getting hurt or falling for him might be worth maintaining some emotional and physical distance between the two of you.

I know it might be natural to want to push it, but if you did do that it might push him further away from you, and I know you do not want that.

I am happy to hear that his ex is far away, the farther the distance the better for him and you.

Best wishes.

Joe

He cannot move forward right now as his heart is in the past. Leave him alone to figure it out and live your life without him. Right now he can offer you nothing but the misery and pain of his last break up. That's something you don't need.

The physical part of a break up comes and goes, but the emotional part is much harder to sever. He hasn't been able to let go completely yet, which means he can not be with you completely. I think it took a great deal of honesty for him to admit this to you. And if you are still friends, I doubt it was just an excuse. Give him some more time. Let him approach you.