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  • Feb 20, 2013, 02:47 PM
    emorey
    Was told I'm not proeducing eggs
    Okay so long story. But okay me and my boyfriend had unpertected sex.. I know its not safe and it was stupid. But he never came inside me and I no that.. but last year sometime I want to the gyno and they told me for one my body isn't producing eggs and for another I have ovarian cysts. Its been about a month since the last time me and my boyfriend did anything. And I took a pregnancy test and it read positive.. so I started freaking out. But I did reserch and I found out that ovarian cyst can cause a pregnancy test to read positive.. and I am havintg all the symptoms as ovarian cyst.. plus my ovaries are starting to sweal so much I can see them threw my skin.. how worried should I be about being pregnant and about the cyst? I'm freaking out I'm only 17 and can NOT have a baby right now..
  • Feb 20, 2013, 02:51 PM
    odinn7
    First, if you're so worried about getting pregnant, you sure didn't act like it when you had unprotected sex. You can still get pregnant with the pull out method... that is not effective at all.

    Second... you should be seeing a doctor about this.
  • Feb 20, 2013, 02:53 PM
    emorey
    I can't see a dr because my mom doesn't know about all this
  • Feb 20, 2013, 02:54 PM
    odinn7
    So you claim that you can see your ovaries through your skin but you really don't care to do anything about it so your mother doesn't find out. Sure, sounds reasonable.
  • Feb 20, 2013, 02:56 PM
    emorey
    She knows about my ovarian cyst.. and she can see them.. she just tells me to take some medacian.. that's why I'm asking
  • Feb 20, 2013, 02:59 PM
    odinn7
    Well, you need to see a doctor if it is really that bad. What kind of medicine can you possibly take for that?

    On top of that, how can we possibly help you? If you can't go to the doctor, we can't do anything.
    If you don't know if you're pregnant, how can we?
  • Feb 20, 2013, 03:04 PM
    Alty
    We can't diagnose pregnancy online. If you took a pregnancy test and it's positive, then you're most likely pregnant. If you feel that the positive result is due to your medical conditions, then you need to see a doctor, or wait 9 months and see if you have a baby. Those are your options.

    Good luck.
  • Feb 20, 2013, 04:56 PM
    smoothy
    It doesn't matter what you know or don't know about what he did or not... he doesn't HAVE to finish inside you to get you pregnant.

    It's that simple... in fact it doesn't even matter if it was only a little bit in and for a second... that's long enough.

    Secondly... doctors have been wrong about things before... they might be now... without extensive testing they won't know for sure if you are or aren't. It won't be determined in a single visit. And at 17 they aren't going to be doing the exhaustive fertility testing to find out for certain that they would if you were 35 and have been trying unsuccessfully for 15 years. If you see the point I'm getting at.

    If you want to be sure... then go to your gynecologist and have them do a test. Or you can keep freaking out for another 4 or 5 months and wait and see if you start to show. I think the doctors office test will be quicker.
  • Feb 20, 2013, 05:02 PM
    J_9
    Healthy ovaries are the size of almonds. If you can see them through your skin you either have transparent skin or ovarian cancer. That is the same with ovarian cysts. If you can see them through your skin, there is something terribly wrong and a doctor's visit should be in order.

    Either you are pregnant or you have cancer. It might be a good idea to visit a doctor to rule out ovarian cancer.
  • Feb 20, 2013, 08:37 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    If you can feel or see them though skin, you have a serious medical problem and need to be rushed to your doctor.

    So tell her. Or even go to the ER if you have to and have no other way to go.
  • Feb 20, 2013, 08:41 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by emorey View Post
    i can't see a dr because my mom doesnt know about all this

    If you are pregnant your moms going to find out soon enough... How do you intend to hide a screaming newborn from everyone else in the house? Assuming you can even hide being clearly pregnant your last trimester. You will be HUGE in the 8th and 9th months.

    And if you think she's going to be pissed telling her now... just wait until she finds out you've been hiding it from her for 5 or 6 months.

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