It just seems like sometimes he's not interested in sex until I initiate it. My sexual desire stayed the same and his changed he used to want it everyday now its like whenever we are both off work as soon as he wakes up he gets up instantly. And now sex is rare for us we do it like once every two weeks it seems like. And the last time was the day before valentines day and I didn't even get any pleasure AT ALL. I gave him a blow job and he said I can right now because he couldn't hold it in. And I said what about me and he just said he will come and then we will have sex as soon as I got it in he wasn't fully hard anymore. Instead of actually trying he just laid there watching TV while I was trying to get him hard again. Then I just gave up because it wasn't working. I have been so upset about this and I don't know how to talk to him about it just makes me mad every time that I was always pleasure him and get nothing in return I'm just so depressed.

You do need to talk to him. You need to sit down and discuss this without getting into an argument over it. Both of you need to remain calm.

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Originally Posted by odinn7

You do need to talk to him. You need to sit down and discuss this without getting into an argument over it. Both of you need to remain calm.

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I have talked to him before and its done me no good. He just thinks I'm complaining and overracting.

Well, if all you're saying is true, then I think he is just trying to place blame here because it doesn't sound like you are overreacting. Maybe he has some sort of issue that he would rather let you deal with rather than himself.

If he won't talk to you, then what do you have really? Relationships should have open communication... he doesn't want to do that so then what?

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Originally Posted by odinn7

Well, if all you're saying is true, then I think he is just trying to place blame here because it doesn't sound like you are overreacting. Maybe he has some sort of issue that he would rather let you deal with rather than himself.

If he won't talk to you, then what do you have really? Relationships should have open communication....he doesn't want to do that so then what?

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Not really sure I think maybe us living
Together made an affect on his sexual desire. He still treats me good but it seems like he doesn't care about sexual needs. He cums too fast and he would rather watch TV and be lazy. I try spicing things up and all he does is laugh doesn't take me serious. So I'm just thinking if I stop giving him what he wants will help.