So I was with this guy for three years. Two years ago this April I found out he cheated on me with my best friend. He is convinced that we were broken up at the time and that he didn’t technically cheat. Two years passed and everything went downhill as I found out more and more things that he did behind my back and tried to lie about.

We broke up around October and I found out he was doing things with another girl again. Now they are together and I just want out of all of this. But he continually tries to make me believe that he still deep down loves me and that he still has some feelings for me. He also on the other hand tells me what a B**ch I am and how the only thing I ever do is B**ch at him and how I am never nice to him anymore. I try to tell him its mainly because he treats me the same way. Every time I try to just leave and tell him goodbye, he begs and begs for me to stay in his life and be there when he needs me.

I don’t know what to do. The thing is we had a chance to make things better between us. But he chose her over me. I don’t know what I could possibly do to make him understand that I don’t want to do this with him anymore. He texts and calls constantly.

Please leave him
Remember that its your happiness over his
U must do what makes you happy

Ignore him, block him, and never respond to him. Anything else is an invitation to his BS!!

You ignore him.

Do what you love, the rest.

You stop talking to him at all, don't answer phone if he calls, hang up if he calls from other number, delete any email or text wtihout reading it, and move on with your life.

Since Oct you should be almost over him had you just ignored him