Hey guys, I've been dating this girl for the past 10 months now. She still talks to her ex. We have had numerous of fights because of this and the last one was yesterday.

I'm really bumed out about it and really have no idea about what to do, I have given her the ultimatum as well. She stopped for a few months then started up again.

Please help me.

You have not really described much of your relationship or how long she had to get over her last relationship.

If it really is affecting it then you will have to make the decision to call it quits. Life is to short to be unhappy.

I don't know how old you are, but I do know you cannot control what others do and if this is such a big deal, remove yourself from the situation completely. Beats fighting about it.