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  • Feb 13, 2013, 02:49 PM
    Ben Aidan
    Ex girlfriend.
    One of my ex girlfriends boyfriend just broke up with her, and she is gagging to have sex with me. All I can say is, I won't get attached at all. I'd force mysf not too.. But is it right if I do this. Then just say I don't want anything? It say that before?
  • Feb 13, 2013, 03:12 PM
    Comeandgetme12
    Well not sure what your trying to ask but if I were you I wouldn't have sex with her because she probably will get attached even if she swears she won't, you just can't help those feeling if they occur. Are you a high school-er? (I am)
  • Feb 13, 2013, 03:22 PM
    fredg
    This is completely up to you. If you want to have a good time, no strings attached, please tell her that this is a no strings attached deal. Be honest with her, and go for it, IF you think you can do and not get involved again. Be sure about this, and then go for it.
  • Feb 13, 2013, 04:09 PM
    Ben Aidan
    It's just going to be a one off and for fun.. But I don't know if it's the right choice
  • Feb 15, 2013, 06:39 AM
    kctiger
    A one off for fun? COME ON MAN!! While I agree this can happen, I certainly don't think doing it with an ex is a good idea. Too much past history, too much emotion. I don't care what the intentions are, it rarely works out the way you planned it. Think with the big head, not the little one! Trust me.
  • Feb 15, 2013, 06:57 AM
    Ben Aidan
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kctiger View Post
    Think with the big head, not the little one! Trust me.

    My big head is thinking for the little one.. I've had a few girls since this ex and I am hoping nothing gets involved. And I would HONESTLY FORCE myself not too because this ex cheated on me in the past. So there is no way I would get attached. I'm not that stupid
  • Feb 15, 2013, 07:17 AM
    talaniman
    I fail to see why you would even consider having fun with some one who cheated before. Never play head games with yourself and if you are unsure then don't do it period. Why are you even talking to an ex who cheated?

    Exes are exes for a reason. She cheated before, now don't cheat yourself by wasting time on some booty.
  • Feb 15, 2013, 07:39 AM
    Ben Aidan
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    I fail to see why you would even consider having fun with some one who cheated before. Never play head games with yourself and if you are unsure then don't do it period. Why are you even talking to an ex who cheated?

    Exes are exes for a reason. She cheated before, now don't cheat yourself by wasting time on some booty.

    Hmm I think you're right.. You've made me think about it. It just feels like its been awhile

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