My girlfriend has fairly low self-esteem, not necessarily about her appearance, but mainly to do with her work life. She has had a couple of jobs in the past three years, but cannot seem to hang onto one, or like one. She recently started a new job and really likes it, and is ‘going all in’ on it and giving it all the effort she can. It is requiring her to move away from her family and she is scared/has doubts about it. Here is where we started a fight. I was trying to console her about it and asked her why she was doubting herself (dumb question, I know), but I was trying to encourage her that she could do it. I tried telling her that I get nervous about work and life all the time and for some reason that made her mad. She got upset and said that I never had any problems, my jobs always went well and people liked me and I was really successful in, not only work, but pretty much everything I did. She listed off a bunch of things that I did really well and after that much nothing I said made her feel better…pretty much made it worse. I know she is scared about the move and I should just encourage her that she can do it, but is there anything else I can do? I can’t relate to her (at least she won’t let me) in any way on this job. I feel like my success makes her feel inadequate…