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  • Feb 11, 2013, 02:21 PM
    sportsfan22
    Need girl advice
    I dated the love of my life for 3 years. We started having issues and things got complicated. Long story short she cheated on me. One minute she cared the next she didn't. We've been broken up for a year and things haven't got easier. I miss her and often wonder if she still thinks about me, if so in a negative or positive way?

    Thanks for the help...
  • Feb 11, 2013, 02:26 PM
    odinn7
    You don't really ask a clear question.

    I assume you want to know if you should try to get back with her? If that is your question, I would say no. She cheated on you, it's been a year, let it go. She wasn't as into you as you were her.

    If your question is whether she thinks about you in a positive or negative way... well, there is no way for anyone here to know the answer to that.
  • Feb 11, 2013, 02:43 PM
    sportsfan22
    Yes that was poor format for the question I was trying to ask. Could have sworn I wrote more than that. So you're saying move on. Thanks for the help
  • Feb 11, 2013, 04:09 PM
    Jiser
    What was your actual question?

    Do you still see this girl?

    If you have not seen her for a year.. I would have expected you to have moved on by now. A year of no contact should have been enough.

    I still think about friends or ex's I had years and years ago. I even remember a friend I had when I was 6. I do not regularly think about these people but the thoughts crop in now and again - both positive and negative. The busier you keep, the better you live your life and the more dating you do the more you will move on :P
  • Feb 11, 2013, 06:57 PM
    fredg
    I am 71 yrs old, divorced after first 7 yrs of marriage, then remarried for 30 years. I have never forgot any girlfriends, or girls I ever knew. I had to move on, and live life as it comes to me.
    I am almost sure she thinks about you some, but in what way, No one can tell. I don't think any of us ever forget people we have known. I hope you can move on, find new friends and be happy. Remember, be honest, respectful, and caring and Smile. You will find someone, if not already. Best to you.

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