I don't know if he really does love me back, I mean he acts like he does but I don't know because he friends are really bad with girlfriends I don't know if I should trust him or dump him. It would be the fourth time if I did dump him though, we have broken up a lot over the years I'm just confused and don't know what to do about him. I love him a lot! But I just don't know he feels the same way towards me:confused. Help me!

Kiyoshi,
I'm just as confused as you are because you have not given enough information for me to help you.
From what you did write:
First, why are you predicting his behavior from the track record of his friends? That is unfair.
Second, why shouldn't you trust him? Has he given you reasons for you to distrust him?
Third, you've broken up a few times. Doesn't sound healthy but I'd still like to know why so that I can get a better idea of your relationship.

Finally, if you were just venting and you wrote "help me!" as a rhetorical statement to show your frustration, then ignore the above message. :)

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Originally Posted by kiyoshilover

i don't know if he really does love me back, i mean he acts like he does but i don't know because he friends are really bad with girlfriends i don't know if i should trust him or dump him. it would be the fourth time if i did dump him though, we have broken up alot over the years i'm just confused and don't know what to do about him. i love him alot! but i just don't know he feels the same way towards me:confused. help me!

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Dear kiyoshi,
I think you should talk to him. Tell him u love him and if he doesn't say anything back or changes the subject, he doesn't really love u.

Don't bother about his friends. Concentrate on him only. You said you dumped him a few times already and you don't know if you should still trust him. Did you have serious reasons for dumping him? Yet, you seem to end up together anyhow... He might love you, but I don't have enough details.

What do you think about having a serious talk with him? Really, talk to him: where are you at in this relationship, what you've been through and if it's going somewhere... You may find out what you want to find out.