Ask Me Help Desk

Ask Me Help Desk (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forum.php)
-   Relationships (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forumdisplay.php?f=277)
-   -   My obsessive ex/boyfriend. (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/showthread.php?t=733539)

  • Feb 11, 2013, 06:54 AM
    puresh
    My obsessive ex/boyfriend.
    Hello. I'm 17 yo and I've had had a problem with my "boyfriend" for about a year.
    I met him about 6 years ago, and two years ago we started going out. He's 5 years older than me, which , by me, is OK.
    The thing is, he is obsessive, he is a psycho, and he is really jealous.Two months after we got together, the arguments started taking toll of our relationship. He wanted to be with me all the time, so I stopped going to school. For months, just to be with him. We broke up couple of times, then we got together. He did hit one of my male friends just because I was hugging him goodbye.
    My biggest problem is that I love him. The last time I was with him he chocked me till I was unconscious.Yes, he hits me, he insults me, he chokes me and says that it's all my fault because I provoke him, and that's just him answering to my confrontation.
    What should I do?
  • Feb 11, 2013, 07:07 AM
    odinn7
    Have him arrested.

    You love him? Is there something wrong with you? How can you love someone that treats you like this? Never mind that he is a pedophile based on what you said about him.
  • Feb 11, 2013, 07:41 AM
    Oliver2011
    "What should I do?"

    Really? Do we really need to tell you that being with someone that is abusive is a bad thing?

    Move out and move on with your life.
  • Feb 11, 2013, 08:01 AM
    Story Writer
    Puresh, from your name it appears you are India. I agree with Ordinn, in getting the man apprehended by police, as the symptoms, you mentioned show him to be a pedophile. What the hell makes him kick you, hit you or treat you so abusively? Just relax and move out of his life!
  • Feb 11, 2013, 08:09 AM
    fredg
    Love makes us do things that we ordinarily would not do... like keep seeing a boyfriend that is abusive.
    Get away from him as fast as you can. Life is worth living, being happy. I can't see you happy in a relationship like this. Be honest, be respectful, and you will eventually meet someone who really cares for you. He doesn't. Good luck, and best wishes.
  • Feb 11, 2013, 08:50 AM
    puresh
    Thank you guys.
    I'm from Bulgaria, not India.(puresh comes from "pure sh*t" -the phrase that describes the best the music genre grunge.)
    I have really tried to get away from him, but it just doesn't work. My friends don't want to know about it anymore, they've tried everything.
    Once again, thank you for the actual advice! (:

  • All times are GMT -7. The time now is 10:17 AM.