Its year now and he is back with me as friend but I don’t how deal with him sometimes . As on things between us is good as friends but sometimes we get carried away with past moments and have good moments or bad fights . He came to me for being friend for some business work we had planned and he had started and wanted my help . I also agreed since it was work related but was somewhere thinking how it would be? Recently he had breakup with the girl for who he double dated me , that girl left him and getting married somewhere else . Due to this he is broken up and want my help to come out and I also supported him becoz , can't see him upset since sum where I still feel for him but I don’t show him becoz he has hurt me a lot and lost my trust . He comes to me and get emotional and tries to get love , even I lose control on me sometimes and give all care and love . These things make me weak becoz he shares all his hurt with me and relaxes but then I become worried and become possessive for him and start behaving stupid which leads to fight . When we where in relationship due lack of time and understanding we could not live the time we wanted to live together and enjoy . Now sometimes I feel to enjoy that time with him as being friends but don’t now it would right or not?? I just want to be with him and complete that things which were missing in relations that time . But he sometimes behaves very wizard by being caring and loving and also being rude sometimes . I am totally confused what to do , and how to deal??

This relationship seems to be more bumpy than any smooth ride could be. Life is really great, but not to the extent that you have to have all these questions about a relationship.
I would find myself some new friends, and leave this one alone. Be honest, and respectful, and you will find yourself someone really nice, who really cares for you. Best wishes, and I know it hurts to move on, have done it myself a couple of times!

Thank you friend but things are happening other way round , situations are there where we end up being together . His family knows me very well since I was meeting them when I was in relation and even now when I am his friend . Sum times his sister who is my friend calls for sum work or something where he is also there . I don't want to go back I am clear about it but being friend is right? I was loyal in my relation and so as in my friendship , but sometimes emotionally get carried away with him since he nows days upset becoz of his break up and sometimes he behaves very different showing love and care and saying sorry for his mistakes and when I just say OK and change the topic so that avoid getting carried away with him , then he gets angry and shouts and blames me for everything . I truly care for him from heart and sumwhere really loved him though he does not , so will me being friend will be fine??

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Originally Posted by sweetgirlluv22

thank you frnd but things are happening other way round , situations are there where we end up being together . his family knows me very well since i was meeting them when i was in relation and even now when i am his frnd . sum times his sister who is my frnd calls for sum work or something where he is also there . i dont want to go back i am clear about it but being friend is right ?? i was loyal in my relation and so as in my frienship , but sumtimes emotionally get carried away with him since he nowsdays upset becoz of his break up and sumtimes he behaves very different showing love n care and saying sorry for his mistakes and just say ok and change the topic since avoid getting carried away , then he gets angry and shouts and blames me for everything . i treally care for him from heart and sumwhere really loved him though he does not , so will me being frnd will be fine .

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