We married quick, and everything was awesome, we attended church.regularly, rededicated, got baptisted together, and life was great. I kept my past hide, a debt that I made many yrs before. When money got tight would shuffle money around to keep it coverd, well finially had to come clean.. an tell her about it... Now, seems like every little word I say she makes me out to be lying... truth would have hurt in the beginning, but now is destroying us... Will God intervine... and help? I love her so much,I thought keeping it queit was protecting her, wrong answer.. truth. Is always best...

I don't believe that anyone on this earth has a direct line to God to give you an answer.
You need to take all this on yourself. Tell her again how sorry you are, but this time without excuses such as how you were protecting her. All excuses are lame, but that's the lamest. All excuses and explanations void the apology.

Yes, you need to suffer too, from her lack of trust, while you work day and night being trustworthy. Consider it penance. Redeeming yourself. Oh, and work doubly hard on that old debt too, to pay it off.

You and your wife need to get into counseling, try and find someone you both can trust.

You were wrong and still trying to justify a lie. You were wrong, and your lying is being punished.

Marriage counseling would be a good idea. Lying is not a good thing, as you know. Maybe some help will save your marriage before it breaks up for good. Good luck.

This seems to be more about whether God will intervene than anything else.

Is this for the religion boards?

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Originally Posted by fredg

Marriage counseling would be a good idea. Lying is not a good thing, as you know. Maybe some help will save your marriage before it breaks up for good. Good luck.

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PS, As an afterthought, Your question was whether God will intervene and help. Miracles have happened, but no one knows if He will or not. Prayer is wonderful, and prayers are answered, but not always how or when we want to hear or find out an answer.