Getting out of a bad relationship?
I've been dating this guy for a few months and I thought he was over all his jealousy and trust issues... I was dead wrong.
He monitors everything I do, literally EVERYTHING!
Like he expects me to spend the night at his house every night, and he gets mad if I don't go right to his house from work. I'm not one of those girls that feels the need to be with her boyfriend 24/7. I'm very independent, I don't need people taking care of me nor do I want. My parents raised me not to depend on people.
Anyway, he's very obsessive if j decide to stay home he will text means call me ALL NIGHT long, and if I take too long to text back he'll message my mom, my sister, brother, my brothers girlfriend, and my two best friends on Facebook asking where I am! If I tell him that I'm staying home and then decide to go out with my GAY best friend he assumes that was my plan all along and he thinks I lied to him. I don't have a reason to lie to him. The other night I stayed home because I had a really bad migraine, I fell asleep so I obviously wasn't answering my phone. No one was home, but next thing I knew he was in my room!! He drove 20 minutes to see if I was lying! He was crying and freaking out because "he thought I was mad".
Last night he went through my phone absolutely everything! My Facebook, texts, email, my web browser history, and my contacts. If he saw a guys name that he didn't know he texted them asking who they were and how they knew me!
I want to break up with him, actually I NEED to but he's told me if I ever break up with him he'll follow me around and beat up any guy that even looks like he's trying to get close to me. I laughed it off at first and just told him I'd move away, but then he told me if I even try to leave the state he'll kill me. That's not funny, even if he was kidding. I'm scared! What the heck do I do?
