Hi, I'm due in a week and my ex just left me because he says we aren't in love anymore. He wasn't like this a week ago, and I'm due in a week from now. He's been hanging out with his friends constantly and have been putting me aside. With me so close to being due, I figured he would want more time with me.. but he just broke it off on my birthday, which was yesterday. Instead of watching a movie with me he got on xbox live with his friend because he said he asked first. I'm in shock and can't believe this is happening to me. This is when I needed him the most. ): Help?

Help with what? Give yourself a shake, find your inner strength, your reserve for that new baby and you and show him he doesn't matter.

What a jerk! How old is he? What's wrong with him? You're having his baby in a week, you had your birthday, and he broke up with you?

Better to find this out now than later. Right now you have to concentrate on doing what's best for you and your baby. Once the baby is born, file for child support immediately. If he doesn't want to be in your life, force him to help support the life he helped create. Then find someone that will always put you and your child first.

I'm so sorry you're going through this. What a jerk this guy is.

How old are you and your ex boyfriend? Was this a planned pregnancy? I am wondering if he is just afraid of the responsibility and growing more afraid the closer your due date comes. Doesn't excuse it but it might explain his lousy timing.

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What a jerk! How old is he? What's wrong with him? You're having his baby in a week, you had your birthday, and he broke up with you?

Better to find this out now than later. Right now you have to concentrate on doing what's best for you and your baby. Once the baby is born, file for child support immediately. If he doesn't want to be in your life, force him to help support the life he helped create. Then find someone that will always put you and your child first.

I'm so sorry you're going through this. What a jerk this guy is.

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He's 21 will be 22 in may. He told me he doesn't feel love for me anymore, but he has been with his friends constantly lately too. I will get him for child support lol

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Wow that's horrible! I can't believe that...

It's weird how breakups seem to happen on special occasions like birthdays or an anniversary... My ex was with me for 3 years and left on our 3 year anniversary and is with another guy. It was extremely painful.

But this is worse! I really wish I could say something that would make things better. It really doesn't make sense why he would abandon you at some a critical time in your life when you need him the most!

I really hope things start getting better for you and making sense... That's just upsetting reading this. I'm sorry!

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Awh I'm so sorry that happened to you, I hope you find someone who is worth it. Thank you though, I bet it's because he's so focused on his friends right now.

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He's 21 will be 22 in may. He told me he doesn't feel love for me anymore, but he has been with his friends constantly lately too. I will get him for child support lol

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Forget him. I know that's hard, especially since you're having his child in a week, but this guy isn't worth your time. You and the baby deserve better, not some jerk that walks out right when you're most vulnerable, most in need of support. This guy is the biggest jerk ever. He doesn't deserve a glass of water if he's dying of thirst. Really.

You can do better than this. So get him for child support, love your child, raise your child, and find someone better. Frankly, a slug would be better than this guy. You don't need him. With friends like him, who needs enemies. He's scum.

Concentrate on having your baby right now. Do you have family that can help, friends? You'll need support right now. Don't be afraid to ask for it.

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Forget him. I know that's hard, especially since you're having his child in a week, but this guy isn't worth your time. You and the baby deserve better, not some jerk that walks out right when you're most vulnerable, most in need of support. This guy is the biggest jerk ever. He doesn't deserve a glass of water if he's dying of thirst. Really.

You can do better than this. So get him for child support, love your child, raise your child, and find someone better. Frankly, a slug would be better than this guy. You don't need him. With friends like him, who needs enemies. He's scum.

Concentrate on having your baby right now. Do you have family that can help, friends? You'll need support right now. Don't be afraid to ask for it.

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Thank you so much (: made me feel so much better. Yes my family and friends will help (:

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Thank you so much (: made me feel so much better. Yes my family and friends will help (:

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You're welcome.

You really deserve better than this.

If you need to talk, to vent, whatever, we're all here. Just post, we'll be your support too. :)

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You're welcome.

You really deserve better than this.

If you need to talk, to vent, whatever, we're all here. Just post, we'll be your support too. :)

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You're too great!! :D

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You're welcome.

You really deserve better than this.

If you need to talk, to vent, whatever, we're all here. Just post, we'll be your support too. :)

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Oh, by the way... he left me for another girl not for gaming. /:

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Oh, btw... he left me for another girl not for gaming. /:

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I knew that. :)

So, you must have had your baby since the last time you posted. How are things going?