My wife gets angry when I ask her about her Guy friend whom are mostly exes and even one she had an affair with. She really gs mad when I ask if she talks to him and I see his phone number on the bills and she has his email address but never any email to read cause she deletes them AM I in trouble or what

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Originally Posted by Jerac1

My wife gets angry when I ask her about her Guy friend whom are mostly exes and even one she had an affair with. She really gs mad when i ask if she talks to him and i see his phone number on the bills and she has his email address but never any email to read cause she deletes them AM I in trouble or what

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As a married woman, I only hide things that will get me in trouble. Unless you beat her or do horrible things to her in jealous rages, I would be concerned if I were you. Good luck.

She has a habbit of bieng unfaithful in the past... so what would stop her now. She should be trying to gain back your trust from having an affair... not being secretive. You need to seriously be careful and don't believe everything she says. How long was the affair?

Theaffair was with her past boyfrined it alsted for about a year she said

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Originally Posted by shannonoleyar

As a married woman, I only hide things that will get me in trouble. Unless you beat her or do horrible things to her in jealous rages, I would be concerned if I were you. Good luck.

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I am very worried and when I asked her she aid she had not had a affair but I feel it in my gut she has

She has no right to be angry. She broke the trust and she doesn't care to gain it back meaning that she doesn't give a flying monkeys butt about you. Sorry to be so harsh, but I put up with the same thing with my ex so I know. I'm not you but if I were, her bags would be out on the front lawn and I would tell her to call a cab and have a nice life. I hope you get it straightened out

Thank you all for responding

Jerac1, if she can't be honest with you about the phone calls she is making to him and erases the emails to and from him, that should tell you something is not right. From the information you have told us, I would say it's a definite yes, she is back to her old games. Even if she was not having an affair she doesn't care enough to gain your trust back so that you don't have reasons to worry.

I wouldn't trust her, if she has already had an affair and is being weird about giving information about guy friends I would strongly suspect something was going on. If she is not willing to even talk about it it may be time to move on with your life, why stay with someone that is untrustworthy?

Oh hunnie! She is trying you! Confront thαt womαn αnd cαll thαt number because unless she's plαnning your surpise birthdαy pαrty she's got something going on.. especiαlly if it hαpened in the pαst.. I wouldn't ever suggest to α mαrried couple to split wαys so I think mαybe seeking help from the outside (therαpists, couple's seminαrs, pαstor, etc.) would be greαt.. You need to tell her to tell you the truth--demαnd it hunnie you hαve the right to know.

My humble opinion is that the horse is out of the barn, and its too late to bolt the door. In all things, I advise people to hope for the best and prepare for the worst. Consult with trusted friends and perhaps an attorney to see what must be done. If I am wrong, you will have spent some time and money preparing for something that didn't happen. Above all, take care of yourself and don't do anything rash. Good luck