Do woman normally have their spouse call out of work due to selfish reasons?

Here we go again...

So really, what we have here based on the title to your question and the actual body of the question itself, is what amounts to 2 questions... both somewhat vague and confusing.

So to try and answer them:

1) I have no idea. How do they? You can't "have narcissist" >title edited -WG<

2) When you ask this, do you mean do all women do this or are you asking if it is normal for a woman to do this?