I have this guy I've been dating for 4 years he was obsessed with me chased me for a whole year I finally gave him a chance he did everything for me treated me like a queen... he has this new chick he has been flauntin for the past 8months but he says she crazy and he doesn't love her he loves me and he wants me to have his baby... I know I need to leave him alone but I can't hellpppp

Seriously, if you can't help but stay with him even when you know he is still talking to another chick then he is going to just keep on doing what he's doing... he is probably saying the same thing to the other chick that he is saying to you. You have to put your foot down and show him what you will and will not put up with. If you don't then your stress and heartache will only get worse and he won't be the only one to blame for it.

Your right thanks... When he calls should I just hang up or get my number changed?? He won't leave ne alone even if I tell him to I don't know what he wants from me?

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Originally Posted by marq123

Seriously, if you can't help but stay with him even when you know he is still talking to another chick then he is gonna just keep on doin what hes doin... he is probably saying the same thing to the other chick that he is saying to you. You have to put your foot down and show him what you will and will not put up with. If you dont then your stress and heartache will only get worse and he wont be the only one to blame for it.

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Well you can explain to him that you would be with him if you all were completely exclusive and that he completely stops talking to the other girl and if you aren't satisfied with his answer and you tell him to leave you alone and he won't then yes... either change your number or block him from calling you and texting you. Do whatever you have to to stop contact... just keep remembering your worth and that you deserve the best, don't ever settle for less!

He is dating two people, so he wants to be the baby daddy, nothing new in life. He wants you and new girl also.

I just can't understand why you are only now after 8 months wondering. 8 months ago when she started going out with new girl, why did you not leave then?

There starting to just now get real flashy with it and I was never his girlfriend I actually don't want a man right now I just want to know why she gets all the time I'm prettier than her I just don't get it... Im his "baby girl" so he says... Or its all a lie... imma leave him alone

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

he is dating two people, so he wants to be the baby daddy, nothing new in life. he wants you and new girl also.,

I just can't understand why you are only now after 8 months wondering. 8 months ago when she started going out with new girl, why did you not leave then?

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I've never been a big fan of "obsessed" behaviors. That can lead to controlling behaviors once the relationship is moving along.

"He wont leave ne alone" - this should be a warning sign. Let him have the other girl and move on. You can do better.