I've been with my boyfriend 3 years. 18 months ago we broke up because I found he was texting someone else from work.. so I decided to go travelling - I came back for him early and moved in with him as he promised this would never happen again and he only wanted me. After 5 months of living together I found another text (same girl).. Moved out but still saw him.. And he begged for me back again. I then moved back after 3 months thinking he learned his lesson but found out he slept with this girl he worked with n she said they were in a relationship (she got in touch with me online) He swore it was only once which I don't really believe but I decided to try and get over it n forgive him. It's been 3 months since I found out but I still think about it everyday.. Is that normal? Is this just going to happen again? I don't ever bring it up which is maybe worse but he doesn't like to talk about it.. I'm doubting everything now and I'm not sure what to do. I know ultimately it is my decision but I'd quite like other opinions..

Know what you are worth and never settle for less!

People have behavior patterns and he has shown you his pattern. He doesn't put much value in the relationship or in you as a person. What you need to weigh is the following: Is he remorseful because he cheated or because he got caught.

This is your decision but I would be hard pressed to stay with someone who consistently made poor choices that involves being unfaithful.