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  • Jan 28, 2013, 11:35 PM
    draya18
    I just hate asking my boyfriend for things cause the word no he always says
    A month ago my boyfriend just got me a 200 dollar diamond necklace and he got because he loves me a lot I really don't like asking him for things because its always you know I can't be spending money like I didn't tell him to buy it he want too so now I ask him well I think its about time you get my nails done and he said you know I can't be spending money I looked at the text like wow your mom brought you a car you didn't have to spend any money he have everything that he want my life isn't great as his I can't get a job because my mom have health problems and I have to look over her and I just feel he care about his self like its really sad but its his money
  • Jan 28, 2013, 11:38 PM
    draya18
    Is weird to call your mom mommy if you are a grown man ? Please someone cause I think it is I mean don't give me wrong I love my mom to death but I'm not going to call her mommy that's a three year old saying js
  • Jan 29, 2013, 12:11 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    No it is not weird, many do, esp in private or two them.

    I can't believe you expect him to pay for your nails to be done, perhaps do them yourself if you can't afford to pay for it.
  • Jan 29, 2013, 12:17 AM
    draya18
    Ok I know that but I wad
  • Jan 29, 2013, 12:19 AM
    draya18
    Ok iknow you didn't have to be a smart about it I don't need him to do anything for me I just asked he said no then we left as that
  • Jan 29, 2013, 02:49 AM
    joypulv
    'I think its about time you get my nails done'

    Wow, I'll be a little mean here too. What kind of sweet talk is that? If he has money and you don't, just be super appreciative and loving when he does buy you something, and he will be happy to do more.
    But I don't know - it might be too late. It would for me.
  • Jan 29, 2013, 05:19 AM
    jbhl
    If he wants to spend money on you then he will, if he sees that his money is better placed else where than your nails that is his call too. "it's about time you get my nails done" no. if you want something get it yourself.

    We live in a society where a woman is expected to be able to handle herself by herself if she wants to. So five ten years from now will your mother really expect you to not have a job of your own and a life? I think you can get a job but you don't want to. Get your own nails done

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