If I live in virginia and my ex lives in Michigan, where do I change my child support. Its currently under Texas where we both lived. With us living so far away, I can't afford to pay 700, and pay to get and return the kids to Michigan. I am no longer in the military and also make less money with a new wife and child to also care for. All I make is va disability and money for going to college. I'm 70% dissabled. Any other advice would also help to see my kids more. Have not seen them in a year due to money issues