So my boyfriend and I have oral sex about once a week. He also like to finger me and from time to time he can get a little rough and it can be painful, but most of the time I don't really say anything. About 2 weeks ago when I was shaving my vagina, it felt like I may have irritated or cut the inside of my labia majora or the outside of the labia minora. The irritation got worse the next couple days, but I just figured I would let it heal on its own. The next day my boyfriend fingered me and he did again this past weekend. I finally made him stop because the pain was beginning to concern me. A few days ago I checked it and noticed a slightly swollen bump on the outside of my labia minora and it looks like there is a small circular cut above my clitoris that has the surface area of pea. I have no idea what either could be and don't think there is anyway it could be an STD based on mine and his sexual histories. Just please if anybody can help I'd really appreciate it!

There are so many possibilities. It could be an ingrown hair, it could be a tear, it could be a disease, it could be anything.

Really, the only way you're going to find out what's going on, is to see a doctor. There's absolutely no way for anyone on the internet to give you a diagnosis. It's simply not possible.

Good luck.