I am in TN and legally married, separated for 5 years now, been to court 3 times and she has won all 3 times. I have spent a ton of money in Attorney fees and I just want out of this marriage. She has lied, under oath and done everything possible to trick everyone. I am now living with a woman that I have basically been with about 5 years as well. HOW do I get her to sign the papers?