As long as I can remember even as a little girl I always had something or some spirit around me and it was bad.. I say this because I am now 36 of age and still feel and think that something has always been with me , because I can tell you that in my life time there has only been about 3 or 4 things good in my life and can only count for very little happy times in my life time and I know now that I am of age to change things in my life and have tried to do so it's the same , no matter how or what I do . It's always something bad...

First good and bad are often how we look at things, And bad happens to everyone, all the time, we just work hard to over come them.

There is no magic, except making new choices and doing things differently than you were.

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

First good and bad are often how we look at things, And bad happens to everyone, all the time, we just work hard to over come them.

There is no magic, except making new choices and doing things differently than you were.

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I have tried different things and changed my ways and the way I think , it's much more than!

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Originally Posted by Teresa burns

I have tried different things and changed my ways and the way I think , it's much more than !!

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Actually I agree with Fr_Chuck. It is how you do things that can have a direct outcome on things in your life. DO things happen along the roadway of life? Yes they do. Have you had to struggle and overcome situations? Im sure you have. But what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. You being able to survive may be a shining beacon to someone else that is weaker and a guidepost to the strength of endurance. So yes it is all about how you look at things and carry yourself that makes all the difference.

I have had mostly bad throughout my life as well. Very little good has come of anything. I had a very rough childhood that I'm not going to go into. I have had numerous accidents that have made it so that I live in pain constantly. If it wasn't for bad luck, I would have no luck at all. I really could go on but there is no point.

As I look back, many of my problems were created by me in one way or another. Not all of them, but quite a few. Some are just out of my control but I push through and keep going.

I am not a positive person by any means but I am also not a quitter and I can look at things objectively. Bad things happen, you don't dwell on them, you get past them and learn from them. You try to make wise decisions and keep bad things from happening again. It's almost like a game.

Break the cycle... don't expect bad things to happen but be prepared if they do. Don't keep thinking that something bad is right around the corner because it may not be. If or when something bad does happen, don't let it control you... simply realize it is part of life and something you need to face and get around it and move on.

Besides the consistent bad.. is there any other reason you believe it is a spirit?

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Besides the consistant bad..is there any other reason you believe it is a spirit?

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My mom told that when I was little about 5 or 6 of age or younger she really didn't remember what age it was but she would hear me talking in the next room and when she came to see what I was doing I would stop just as she come in the room and ask me who I was talking to but I never told her and I have a very good memory.. But nothing about anything she has told me about . My youngness memory is when I am 3 and my mom is in labor with my sister and she had me call my grandmother on the phone and it's true.. I asked my mom about it... so yes I have thought that maybe it was..

Do you hold any sort of religious beliefs/practices?

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Do you hold any sort of religious beliefs/practices?

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I do believe in god but if you are asking me I am religious I am not and don't practices anything..?

Just asking... sometimes religion has a lot to do with it. Sometimes our bad luck has a lot to do with how we react to it. If it is an actual spirit however... you should speak with a pastor.

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Just asking...sometimes religion has a lot to do with it. Sometimes our bad luck has a lot to do with how we react to it. If it is an actual spirit however...you should speak with a pastor.

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Well I have talk to a pastor and tried to tell him about me and I didn't even get done telling him and he told me I needed to go and that he couldn't help me... with that I just stop looking for the answer and didn't want to tell anyone... it made me feel mad and up set... but thank you for trying to help

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Well I have talk to a pastor and tried to tell him about me and I didn't even get done telling him and he told me I needed to go and that he couldn't help me ...with that I just stop looking for the answer and didn't want to tell anyone ...it made me feel mad and up set ...but thank you for trying to help

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Might I add... a pastor that believes you. Some are less ignorant than others. Ask around.

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Might i add...a pastor that believes you. Some are less ignorant than others. Ask around.

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Ok I will and I will let you know how it goes thanks... :)

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