I really don't know if this is the area for me to be posting this question, but I am married to a guy who has a kid from a pervious marriage, and I love the child very much, so obviusly not my issue. My issue is the fact that when my husband was married to his ex; they had some issues and briefly got a leagal separation. Well during that time he had a "moment" with another woman, and got her pregnant. This is where my issue comes from. He pays child support on this kid, but because the other woman cheated on the guy she was with, she doesn't want him to see the child at all. I find this very wrong, and have lashed out more than once at my husband about this. My feeling are if he is going to set back and do nothing to fight for this child; then why is he paying at all? He is always complaining of how we are tight on money and all that stuff, so I told him to be a man, and stand up to this woman, and either demand a right to see this child or give up his rights, and quit paying the woman money. Am I in the wrong, or what should be done? After all the child is around 6 years old now; has never seen her "real" dad, and there is another man in the home that she looks at like her father. So why is it that my husband should continue paying? I am really confused when it comes to this, and need a lot of advise. Is there some one out there that can help me what is the right thing to do? I am right for telling him to sign over his rights, or should I just stay out of it, and when my husbad start to compain about it do nothing or say nothing? Some one please help me before my marriage ends to over a matter like this. :confused:
