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  • Jan 25, 2013, 12:56 PM
    badgirl1
    Should I tell my best guy friend I have a crush on him?
    Should I tell my best guy friend I have a crush on him?
  • Jan 25, 2013, 01:31 PM
    shank005100
    It depends upon him. Just give him a situation involving two friends who became lovers eventually and ask his views upon that situation. If he feels that there is no wrong in friends becoming lovers ehn go ahead do not delay it... just let him know about your crush on him. But if he doesn't support this then you need to be careful as disclosing your feelings over him might be an end to your relationship even as friends.
  • Jan 25, 2013, 03:20 PM
    Homegirl 50
    How long have you been friends and how long have you had a crush? What would be the point? How old are the both of you?
  • Jan 25, 2013, 05:16 PM
    badgirl1
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    How long have you been friends and how long have you had a crush? What would be the point? How old are the both of you?

    4 year and about 1 year and I'm 13 turn 14 in April and his 14 turn 15 in octorber
  • Jan 25, 2013, 05:28 PM
    Homegirl 50
    I think you should just stay friends with him. You are too young for anything else
  • Jan 25, 2013, 05:50 PM
    badgirl1
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    I think you should just stay friends with him. You are too young for anything else

    I have been datin when was 5 years old I know what I'm doing and he moved to Texas in the summer we can't do any thing expect text and call and Facebook each other that what do now
  • Jan 25, 2013, 06:10 PM
    Homegirl 50
    So you have been dating since you've been 5? If you know what you're doing why are you here asking what to do?
    If you can't can do anything what would be the point? Maybe he has found someone there, your starting something with him now would be unfair.
  • Jan 25, 2013, 07:23 PM
    badgirl1
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    So you have been dating since you've been 5? If you know what you're doing why are you here asking what to do?
    If you can't can do anything what would be the point? Maybe he has found someone there, your starting something with him now would be unfair.

    How will be unfair and he is single I know for a fact

    How can I know a guy likes me
  • Jan 25, 2013, 07:51 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    Ask him out on a date, if this is a high school age issue.
    If this is a younger juv, I think the habit is have your friend ask his friend, so some silly thing like that.
    Normally just talking to the other person is what you do
  • Jan 25, 2013, 07:57 PM
    badgirl1
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    Ask him out on a date, if this is a high school age issue.
    If this is a younger juv, I think the habit is have your friend ask his friend, so some silly thing like that.
    Normally just talking to the other person is what you do

    Will I'm in middle school so can u help me with that
  • Jan 25, 2013, 07:58 PM
    Homegirl 50
    You no longer live in the same place and have no chance of a relationship. He should be free to date girls where he is. What good would it do for him to know this, what would be the point.

    Is this the guy who has moved away and you want to tell him you have a crush on him? You are 13 he's 14 Just ask him. But he lives far way from you, what difference will it make?
    There is no reason to post another question.
  • Jan 25, 2013, 08:27 PM
    badgirl1
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Is this the guy who has moved away and you want to tell him you have a crush on him? You are 13 he's 14 Just ask him. But he lives far way from you, what difference will it make?
    There is no reason to post another question.

    No this about a guy in my school OK
  • Jan 25, 2013, 08:33 PM
    Homegirl 50
    Do you talk to this guy, does he talk to you?
  • Jan 25, 2013, 08:42 PM
    badgirl1
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Do you talk to this guy, does he talk to you?

    Yes

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    You no longer live in the same place and have no chance of a relationship. He should be free to date girls where he is. What good would it do for him to know this, what would be the point.

    I live in the same place he dose not he don't like the any of the girls in his school because make funny of him and call him names so your therey is out about girls
  • Jan 25, 2013, 08:52 PM
    Homegirl 50
    If we don't know anything about the guy or his actions with and around you, what makes you think we know if he likes you?
    If he talks to you, he does not dislike you.

    I thought you said he moved to Texas and you can't do anything but call and text and Facebook.
    Why are you asking about another guy liking you, do you have a crush on him too?
  • Jan 25, 2013, 09:22 PM
    badgirl1
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    If we don't know anything about the guy or his actions with and around you, what makes you think we know if he likes you?
    If he talks to you, he does not dislike you.

    He stares at me lot because I stares at him and some we have eye contact with each other or my best friend see him starein at because she seat next to him in class and I talk to her and he gets really quit or try to show off when I'm around and nerves look in is eyes and we 1 , 4, 6 period together

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    I thought you said he moved to Texas and you can't do anything but call and text and facebook.
    Why are you asking about another guy liking you, do you have a crush on him too?

    Maybe
  • Jan 25, 2013, 09:25 PM
    Homegirl 50
    Well at your ages, he probably does. So does this mean you don't have a crush on the other guy?

    Well leave the guy in Texas alone. You don't know who you like. And you will probably like many others. You are still very young.
  • Jan 25, 2013, 09:40 PM
    badgirl1
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Well leave the guy in Texas alone. You don't know who you like. And you will probably like many others. You are still very young.

    So who cares if one say yes I'm fine with eirth one of them

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Well at your ages, he probably does. So does this mean you don't have a crush on the other guy?

    I like both of them
  • Jan 25, 2013, 09:47 PM
    Homegirl 50
    Well why would you tell one guy you have a crush on him when you like another one?
    As young as you are, stay friends with both and concentrate on school.

    You can't even see the one in Texas, why even start that? Are you just itching to have a boyfriend and you don't care who?
    Concentrate on school and leave the boyfriend thing alone.
  • Jan 25, 2013, 10:22 PM
    badgirl1
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    You can't even see the one in Texas, why even start that? Are you just itching to have a boyfriend and you don't care who?
    Concentrate on school and leave the boyfriend thing alone.

    One in Texas know already knows

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Well why would you tell one guy you have a crush on him when you like another one?
    As young as you are, stay friends with both and concentrate on school.

    Little to late

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