I have been wearing nappies by choice for the last 4 months. I am looking for a safe way to experience urinary incontinence. I have tried catheters but it is not healthy to have an open catheter in my nappy.
How can I temporally disable my external urinary sphincter?

Why?

I have to say, I have heard it all.

Yes it would be unhealthy to have an open catheter in your diaper; the catheter would not drain properly and would back up with contaminated urine causing a host of problems for your urinary tract. But then on the other hand, do that and you will experience urinary incontinence.

So, me too, why?