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Guys

Okay, So I really like this guy, and he really likes me. But he is with a girl, He has kissed me before, hugged me, talked to me on the phone, and he has even told me he loved me. My issue is that my ex is OBSESSED with me. And I really don't like him because he tried using me for sex. I don't understand why but he did. Now this guy, the one I like, His girlfriend is constantly cheating on him with 3 or more guys she has met from Facebook, or her 7 yr older brothers friends. She tortures him and calls him ugly, fat and unattractive, but he isn't any of that. She told him lasntight to kill himself and she doesn't care, but he is stuck with her because if he leaves she WILL kill herself. I am seriously stuck. This guy really wants to be with me and he shows it every day. But I can't be around him to talk to him because every time I do his girlfriend tries fighting me. I want to help him, but I don't want his girlfriend to kill herself or me. My ex likes her, but she just has her nose in other guys crotches 24/7. She just doesn't understand that she has this perfect guy right here and she is throwing him away and this guy really needs me to help, but like I said I'm stuck.. I need advice ASAP!

Thanks! :)

She will kill herself if he leaves her? Not saying it won't happen at all, but I have heard that one before, many times! I think you should leave them all, and make some new friends. Be honest and respectful, and you will meet some much nicer boys. Good luck.

No she will not "kill herself" is this a silly juv threat that is normally laughed at.
If he is staying with her, it is because he wants to, if he really wants to date you he would.

No reason he can not date both of you, sorry, serious dating should wait till one dates for a while and is getting seroius

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

no she will not "kill herself" is this a silly juv threat that is normally laughed at.
If he is staying with her, it is because he wants to, if he really wants to date you he would.

No reason he can not date both of you, sorry, serious dating should wait till one dates for a while and is getting seroius

She keeps threatening, that's why he is still with her.

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Originally Posted by samcreed

She will kill herself if he leaves her? Not saying it won't happen at all, but I have heard that one before, many times! I think you should leave them all, and make some new friends. Be honest and respectful, and you wil meet some much nicer boys. Good luck.

Thanks, I will try, He means a lot to me, But like you said There's always nicer boys.

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Originally Posted by 16hisbabygurl04

Thanks, I will try, He means a lot to me, But like you said Theres always nicer boys.

I think I saw this episode on Beverly Hills 90210...

This is crazy. Sounds like reality TV.
If her really wants to be with you he will. If he lets her control him, he's weak.
Find somebody else

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

This is crazy. Sounds like reality TV.
If her really wants to be with you he will. If he lets her control him, he's weak.
Find somebody else

Nice and to the point!

"If I leave her she'll kill herself" is the teenage equivalent of "I can't leave my wife because of the chldren."

"But I love you, baby."

What a complicated story!