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  • Jan 21, 2013, 10:36 AM
    milkchocolate98
    I kissed a girl but I'm a girl?
    Okay so in school I'm good friends with a girl called Jessica (Jessy) and we were fooling around one time and then we kissed. She was my first kiss so it's really hard to forget her. But anyway, we did the same thing for 2-3 days and then forgot about it since we were best friends and didn't want to ruin anything. I didn't forget it though since I'm bisexual, and I had a crush on her. She said she was bisexual too but after we kissed she quickly said she was straight. Anyway, half a year later, we kiss while doing the Pocky game and I decided to act casual about it. After that we go into the bathrooms in school and she kisses me a few times. Thing is, I don't want to go back to square one since she said she has done this with a few other friends of hers, so it's normal for her. She also sometimes looks into my eyes dreamily and she has this romantic side that's really hard to get out of her but she's only like that with me and she used to be like that with her ex boyfriend. Anyway, she says she wants to make out with me tomorrow.. Should I let her? I know it's only going to lead to hurt and heartbreak but should I just see where it goes? Thank you and have a wonderful day :) xoxo <3
  • Jan 21, 2013, 10:43 AM
    Wondergirl
    I'm guessing you are around 12 or 13? If I were you, I would not play around with this, especially if she has had a boyfriend. Hormones are still churning wildly at your age, so just be friends and don't get lost in physical entanglements right now.
  • Jan 22, 2013, 02:05 AM
    milkchocolate98
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    I'm guessing you are around 12 or 13? If I were you, I would not play around with this, especially if she has had a boyfriend. Hormones are still churning wildly at your age, so just be friends and don't get lost in physical entanglements right now.

    Thank you! <3 You're right, haha :3 We didn't make out, I told her that I didn't want to so yeah :) We did kiss twice though but they were just pecks. I hope this doesn't lead to anything, I'm quite tired of being hurt.
  • Jan 22, 2013, 05:30 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by milkchocolate98 View Post
    I'm quite tired of being hurt.

    And that's the main reason why you behave yourself and just make friends and do well in school. Avoid the relationship entanglements for now. You're too young for all that drama that your young mind and heart don't really want to deal with.
  • Jan 22, 2013, 05:56 AM
    nidarehman
    It is not right you can do only own your husband
  • Jan 22, 2013, 06:56 AM
    Oliver2011
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by nidarehman View Post
    It is not right you can do only own your husband

    What?
  • Jan 30, 2013, 04:17 PM
    Kat89007
    One Thing... We can't actually help much here so what I would do is talk to her.. it seems like best way forward... annd thank you hope you have good day to.. good luck

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