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  • Jan 17, 2013, 07:34 AM
    PatriciaW90
    How to stop thinking of him
    I know this sounds crazy and prob shouldn't be posting questions like this to the forum but basically I'm from the London and there's this guy I like, problem is he lives in the circus. We spoke online every night for weeks and I started to really like him. I'm a big city girl but I've been thinking its prob never going to happen? I like him so much I'm always thinking of him! How can you just stop thinking of someone? Or stop liking them! The thing is I don't want to stop but its not like we could ever work! What should I do :(
  • Jan 17, 2013, 07:42 AM
    Oliver2011
    It might be time for a reality check. Your relationship has been online, not in person. Before you go committing to marriage and death do we part, get to know him more. Many fakes are online. You want to make sure you don't get into something you won't like in the future.
  • Jan 17, 2013, 08:44 AM
    Homegirl 50
    You will not stop thinking about him as long as you don't want to. This is a crush, fantasy. You don't really know him. When you are ready to wake up, you will.
    This will fade with time, especially if you are no long communicating and as you get involved in other things.
  • Jan 17, 2013, 08:45 AM
    PatriciaW90
    He is real I've seen him! That's how we started talking, after I went to his show he added me! Are circus people the same as the traveller community?
  • Jan 17, 2013, 08:49 AM
    Homegirl 50
    I didn't say he wasn't real, I meant your relationship is not real. How old are you?
    He probably add people all the time. He travels from place to place.
  • Jan 17, 2013, 08:54 AM
    PatriciaW90
    No sorry Oliver2011 said its possible he could be fake! Sorry haha I'm actually 20, he's 18 and he's the son of a very big circus I know he travels from place to place but would it be stupid to think he would let me go with him for a while? Haha
  • Jan 17, 2013, 09:30 AM
    Homegirl 50
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by PatriciaW90 View Post
    No sorry Oliver2011 said its possible he could be fake! Sorry haha I'm actually 20, hes 18 and hes the son of a very big circus I know he travels from place to place but would it be stupid to think he would let me go with him for a while? Haha

    Yeah, it is kind of dense to think that. You sounds like a 16 year old.
    Meet someone you can have a real relationship with.
  • Jan 17, 2013, 12:32 PM
    JudyKayTee
    I thought you were 23 and he was 17?
  • Jan 17, 2013, 01:24 PM
    PatriciaW90
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    I thought you were 23 and he was 17?

    After I found this forum I posted a question for my sister who's dating a 17 year old haha! I am 20? She's 23 sorry for the confusion

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