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  • Jan 17, 2013, 07:14 AM
    excon
    Gay Marriage
    Hello:

    Gay marriage is now LEGAL in my state. Provisions were made for the clergy to refuse to do them if they felt uncomfortable, but can JUDGES refuse?

    excon
  • Jan 17, 2013, 07:17 AM
    Oliver2011
    If judges refused that would probably open up the county/city to a whole lot of bad press and lawsuits. My guess would be no.
  • Jan 17, 2013, 07:36 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Have not read the complete law on it, but normally no, they represent the government, not a religion and have to uphold the law.
    Next a judge does not do a blessing of any kind and it is non religious in nature, so there should be no religious issues to it.
  • Jan 17, 2013, 08:52 AM
    excon
    Hello Padre:

    Quote:

    it is non religious in nature, so there should be no religious issues to it.
    Yet, some of our judges think it is. I don't know HOW it's going to work out.

    Is this the same issue as a pharmacist refusing to sell birth control or plan B? True, he's a PRIVATE businessman. But, he IS licensed by the state, and I'm sure the license requires certain standards to be met. At least, that's MY argument.

    Excon
  • Jan 17, 2013, 09:04 AM
    tomder55
    Not quite . A judge is the employee of the state. If he doesn't like it he can resign from his position . He is NOT running his own shop.
  • Jan 17, 2013, 09:07 AM
    Oliver2011
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tomder55 View Post
    not quite . A judge is the employee of the state. If he doesn't like it he can resign from his position . He is NOT running his own shop.

    Your symbol would be nicer if it was a Cincinnati Reds logo!

    :)
  • Jan 17, 2013, 09:20 AM
    tomder55
    If it's any consolation ;I was a fan of the Big Red Machine ;and got to see them whup the Mets at Shea.
  • Jan 17, 2013, 09:21 AM
    Oliver2011
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tomder55 View Post
    if it's any consolation ;I was a fan of the Big Red Machine ;and got to see them whup the Mets at Shea.

    Yeah that was an awesome team especially during the 76 World Series. Oops, sorry. I just love my team.
  • Jan 17, 2013, 09:23 AM
    tomder55
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Oliver2011 View Post
    Yeah that was an awesome team especially during the 76 World Series. Oops, sorry. I just love my team.

    No problem.. The Yanks were only learning how to win in 76 after a decade long slump.
  • Jan 17, 2013, 06:24 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    Ok, not even understanding how we went from Gay marriage and judges to the 76 world series ?
  • Jan 17, 2013, 07:03 PM
    paraclete
    It has about as much relevance as how we link marriage to a gay relationship
  • Jan 19, 2013, 10:02 AM
    talaniman
    A gay relationship is no different than any human relationship, and marriage has its economic advantages that should be free to all.
  • Jan 21, 2013, 05:12 AM
    Oliver2011
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by paraclete View Post
    It has about as much relevance as how we link marriage to a gay relationship

    Excuse me?
  • Jan 21, 2013, 05:38 AM
    paraclete
    No!
  • Jan 21, 2013, 06:00 AM
    Oliver2011
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by paraclete View Post
    no!

    I am not sure why you would make a statement like that without defending your position. But that is your choice.
  • Jan 21, 2013, 06:13 AM
    paraclete
    I have no wish to start a discussion on the merits of marriage or gay relationships
  • Jan 21, 2013, 06:14 AM
    Oliver2011
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by paraclete View Post
    I have no wish to start a discussion on the merits of marriage or gay relationships

    Well then maybe you shouldn't have posted it then.
  • Jan 21, 2013, 10:13 AM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by paraclete View Post
    I have no wish to start a discussion on the merits of marriage or gay relationships

    But that's the topic. And as long as money, property, and rights are concerned, then everyone should have access to the benefits of marriage, and risk of the consequences of divorce.

    I mean everybody is hollering about THEIR rights to guns, abortions, and making money, but turn around and tell others they have no rights.

    That's hypocrisy and BS.
  • Jan 21, 2013, 02:21 PM
    paraclete
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post

    I mean everybody is hollering about THEIR rights to guns, abortions, and making money, but turn around and tell others they have no rights.

    Thats hypocrisy and BS.

    But Tal I didn't tell anyone they had no rights I said I didn't see the relevance. I was responding to Chuck's comment about sport but as always some one has an axe to grind. I think my position on these issues is known, I neither need to explain it or justify it
  • Jan 21, 2013, 02:24 PM
    talaniman
    That's why we use quotes to avoid confusion.

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