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  • Jan 11, 2013, 03:56 AM
    elizaboo
    Pregnancy
    Im 15 years old and I was pregnant and lost the baby and ever since me and my boyfriend have been trying to get pregnant and I know I'm young but I really want this I don't know what to do I started my period 12/18/12 and ended the 12/24/12 and had unprotected sex 1/5/13 could I still get pregnant or is it to late?
  • Jan 11, 2013, 04:06 AM
    ScottGem
    First, you need stop acting you a foolish child. How old is the boyfriend? How do you think you will support and raise a child?

    The miscarriage is a sign that your body is not ready to carry a child full term. You are risking your health as well as the health of a possible child by going through with this.

    Do your parents know you miscarried? Do you know its possible your boyfriend can wind up in jail as a sex offender?

    Wake up you foolish girl and get real, you are neither physically, emotional or financially prepared to have a child.
  • Jan 11, 2013, 04:21 AM
    elizaboo
    First of all I isn't foolish and my boyfriend turned 17 my parents like him so you.I think I only had miscarriage because I got jumped pretty bad

    You I'm young but having a baby in you and getting attached to it then losing it is very depressing .I want this baby I'm healthy and I've seen 16 and pregnant I see its hard but we both already work and have been saving haven't spent any money .I just don't know what I should do I'm not going to change my mind about this because I do want a baby and my boyfriend wants to start a family with me to
  • Jan 11, 2013, 04:36 AM
    ScottGem
    Yes you are foolish. Again, do your parents know you are having sex with him? Do they know you miscarried?

    Yes some girls do go full term at even younger ages. But everyone is different.

    Do you have any clue how much it costs to have and raise a baby?

    Look I understand the feelings you have, my wife miscarried with our second child. Instead of trying to bring a child into the world that you are unprepared for, you should seek counseling for dealing with your loss.

    I know, I'm probably beating my head against a stone wall as you are too foolish to listen to reason. But you are unlikely to find very many people to tell you anything different.; Have you talked to your parents about your plans? If you think you aren't being foolish and that this is a good idea, why not?
  • Jan 11, 2013, 05:00 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Foolish is too nice, she is just plan stupid and the one who is going to suffer is this poor child brought up into most likely another welfare family.

    Sorry but when you are 19 or 20, is when you start having kids, at 15, soon 16, most likely the babies daddy will be off before the child is born or within a year after.

    Your mom will end up raising the child when you still want to go out and run the streets.

    Just the term "jumped" and how you say it as if that is a normal way of life, wake up it is not.

    A normal way of life, finish high school, maybe college or at least get a job that is worth having.
  • Jan 11, 2013, 05:26 AM
    Oliver2011
    Agree with the foolish and the stupid comments.

    Get ready everyone - our tax payer dollars are going to pay for yet another person...

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