Hey guys,
So I started seeing this guy about 3 months ago and we started getting physical (mostly by my request) about 3 weeks in. The first time we had sex was fine we were a little tipsy and it was in missionary. The times that followed that were a little more difficult. Since then we haven't had sex in any position besides doggy (which I mentioned to him that I enjoyed the most but I've also mentioned I love being on top). And sometimes he can't even get it up. And the past 3 times I've tried to give him head he can't get it up. So I've never even given him a blow job. He LOVES going down on me, though. He claims his issues are because he's "really nervous because I'm the most beautiful person he's ever seen" and "he's never been so nervous around a woman". Which I don't understand because he's a huge catch . He's even told me he loves me a few times so I'm certain he wants to be with me. So my question is, is this a legit thing? Is this something that actually happens? Or could it be caused by something else? I'm an extremely sexual person and my libido is off the charts. I'm pretty sure he's well aware that I will have sex with him anytime, anywhere. And when we do have sex it's AMAZING.

p.s. I'm 22 and he's 26

p.s.s I'm positive he's not gay. He broke up with his girlfriend of 3 years to be with me.

Maybe he is still phasing from his girlfriend and there are guilt feelings blocking his lust. That's often the case when you jump from one long term partner to another with no proper healing period.

Even if there relationship was really bad it possible he hasn't dealt with the feelings, or the memories. A relationship is a lot more than sex and lust.

Seems very fast to move from girl friends bed to yours, and that could be a real issue.

Also he may well have a medical issue, or reaction to stress, He could be working too hard and a dozen things

Also a man can get oral if he is not hard, and can still climax often. Not sure why you thought you had to stop if he was not hard.

If the first time there was a issue, you said anything negative it will only make his issues wors

I agree with the others about the past girlfriend issue. He could possibly even be considering being with her again IF she would take him back which I doubt she would. But you got to think, it doesn't sound good for anyone to leave someone to be with someone else. Not a good sign. He might be struggling with emotions. And it's only been 3 months so it could it better or worse..