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  • Jan 8, 2013, 07:30 PM
    Harry28
    Avoiding me why?
    I meet a girl on Facebook before 2 months, coincidence she lived near by me I saw there daily while she was going to tuition class and once I asked her for her contact no. but she rejected my request and then I asked her no. by his friend and I got. Earlier I used to message her but she said please don't message me and then she also message me too I meet her twice before it . On the new year I said her to meet me then I gave her a gift and proposed her but she said that no she didn't want this all and she didn't like this from that day she talked with me in evening too but from next day she said me please don't call me or message then I said her sorry and I meet her again and asked why she wanted this . But she said nothing reason and now she avoidin me daily .
    Please help me what to do now?
  • Jan 8, 2013, 07:33 PM
    Alty
    Can you re-write that, it's really hard to understand.

    You proposed to her? Seriously?

    Only she knows why she's avoiding you. My guess would be that you're coming on way too strong, proposing, and stalking, and she's had enough and wants nothing more to do with you. But that's just a guess based on how I'd react, and that's based on the very few parts of your post that I could understand. Only she knows why she's acting the way she's acting.
  • Jan 8, 2013, 07:42 PM
    Harry28
    Yeah I seriously proposed her but she didn't give any reason to me just said she didn't want to talk me any more
  • Jan 8, 2013, 07:44 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Harry28 View Post
    Yeah i seriously proposed her but she didn't give any reason to me just said she didn't want to talk me any more

    Does she have to give you a reason why? She doesn't want to talk to you anymore, that's her reason. She doesn't have to explain it to you.
  • Jan 8, 2013, 07:49 PM
    Harry28
    She explained me that she didn't like this all and she didn't want to this matter any more I said why? She said nothing .
    Please help me what should I do now?
  • Jan 8, 2013, 08:25 PM
    Harry28
    Means you couldn't help me
  • Jan 8, 2013, 08:38 PM
    Cat1864
    By propose, do mean asking her to date/go out with you or do you mean you asked her to marry you?

    What you do is leave her alone as she has requested. She has told you to leave her alone. She has been very clear about not wanting you to contact her.

    She does not owe you a reason for not wanting to go out with you. As much as you might like her or think she is attractive, she does not share your feelings.

    Your next step is to go about your life as though you never met her. You go out with your friends. You have fun. You gain new experiences. You meet new people. You learn to handle rejection with grace and dignity. You move forward.
  • Jan 9, 2013, 01:54 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Harry28 View Post
    means you couldn't help me

    No, it means that I had to make dinner for my family. I don't work on this site, I volunteer. I'm not here 24/7.
  • Jan 9, 2013, 02:10 PM
    odinn7
    You're probably creeping her out. If I read and understood you correctly, it sounds like you're almost stalking her. She didn't want to give you her contact number so you asked her friend for it. Guess what? There was a reason she didn't want you to have it and that should have been enough without going to her friend for it. Then you proposed to her... 2 months on Facebook and some stalking and you proposed?

    Get the hint. She doesn't like you that way. She told you no more. Leave her alone and move on.

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