Hello all,

I have known/been friends with this girl for 5 years now and have been slowly coming to realize that I have feelings for this girl. Two problems. 1st I have tried to explain this to her before and things didn't work. 2nd she recently (November) got a boyfriend whom she seems to be happy with. How do I tell her without emberassing her or ruining our friendship while also trying to apoligize for bringing it to her attention before

She has a boyfriend, so you should leave her alone.

The answer is... you don't.

As TJ said, she had a boyfriend.

As you said, she seems happy.

There you have it.

Case closed.