Ever since I was disvirgned ,I had never enjoyed sex. Am married now and it is still the same. Sometimes I fake and sometimes I tell my partner. The point is that I derive joy in masturbation of there glitories and I always do have orgasme.my partner is huge and great. Please what is wrong with

I have the same problem except I never pretend to orgasm.. if I can't, I will let him know. I never knew there was other people like this. I don't know what to do with myself either, it is very rare when I do and I wish I could orgasm every time but usually I also have to use a vibrator and that gets old. I'm sorry I know what your feeling.