Like I have been this girl for half of the year and we had a lot of ups and downs and she gave me rings for the relationship. We broke like a few days ago and like I try talking to her and like been getting ignored.

Finally talked to her today. I asked if she wants to hangout. I wait and 2 hours later she texts sorry. I had my phone and deleted the message. Then we talk and I ask if she wants to go to the movies. She says after 4 hours of waiting she has a boyfriend, so I'm like OK, and asked what should I do with the rings. She's like keep them because I'm coming back to you if this doesn't work out.

I feel like a benchwarmer for the dude. I need help. What do I do?

Give them back. Show some pride.

Keep the rings, or pawn them, and have no more to do with her. Then you can heal and get along with your own business, and keep your dignity, and self respect.

That's what you do when you get dumped for another person. Its called No More Contact! whatsoever, for any reason.

In life it is best to always believe what people do instead of what they say. This young woman has shown her disinterest in continuing your relationship by her reluctance to communicate with you. When you have spoken with her, she has stated she may come back to you, which means you should put your own life on hold waiting for her. Sorry, but no. Make a clean break, and mail the rings back to her. Then she can do with them as she likes. Stop trying to communicate with her, delete her phone number, and move on with your life.

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Originally Posted by Terez07

In life it is best to always believe what people do instead of what they say. This young woman has shown her disinterest in continuing your relationship by her reluctance to communicate with you. When you have spoken with her, she has stated she may come back to you, which means you should put your own life on hold waiting for her. Sorry, but no. Make a clean break, and mail the rings back to her. Then she can do with them as she likes. Stop trying to communicate with her, delete her phone number, and move on with your life.

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Thanks man