Ok it's complicated and there's more than just a question. I'm 13 and I'm a girl. Ever since I was young I got into a habit of humping a chair (I know it sound just plain weird) It’s been in the family for a while and we call it "riding" because if you look from behind it looks like you riding a horse, but anyway as I got older I figured it gave me pleasure. I can stop but I have a pleasure or a desire for sex.

None of the boy's at school or not all of them have liked me but when I show a picture of myself if a guy doesn’t know me they come to me like I'm something they really need. I've tried stopping and everything but nothing helps I've done the silver ring thing but that doesn’t help. I'm a Christian and I shouldn't be involved in sex but I'm in the middle and I really want to get out. I really believe sex is a think for marriage and I've never had sexual contact only phone sex, touching myself and other stuff. I feel ashamed and I feel like a whore.

My sister and mother were both molested when young before my mother had me but not even that woke me up. Please help me and the second Q is how can I get a clear pimple free face I've tried internet friends and I'm too young to go to a specialist so please help. Thank you.

Girl don't be ashamed, you're not a whore. I'm a Christian too and I remember going through all sorts of that sort of stuff when I was thirteen. It's new hormones that's giving you such a desire for sexy stuff. Don't feel ashamed, just ask the Lord to forgive you and he will! God loves you and understands how you feel. He's not out there to judge you, he wants to help you. You are not the only one struggling with this! You're not abnormal at all. You need to stop worrying so much about whether guys think you're sexy or not. Just focus on being friends with guys, and someday you will fall in love with the right guy at the right time. Relax! Get to know guys for their personalities and stop worrying about sex! If you are always fantasizing about sex maybe get your parents to help you? As for a pimple free face, there are four steps - one, drink lots of water, two, gently wash your face often, three, avoid too much sugar or chocolate, and four get plenty of exercise. Jesus loves you sweetie. Xoxo

Thank u so much!I'm really thankful