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  • Dec 19, 2012, 03:57 AM
    apslg
    What should I do & how can I live after breaking 5 yrs relationship?
    I believe still nw she iz my life as well as part of my life.after going 5yrs relation nw she ready 2 break up our relation.. please help anyone am totally tired... my life seem burden for me... after going smooth relationship nw she told me that her mentality not matching my mentality... nw she feel better after brkup... my mom & dad & her parents are agree 4 our relation... after joining job in software company she try 2 keeping distance 4m me... am feeling bad 4 my parents... every and each scene alys highlighted in front of me.. her caring her word and all memories always poking me... each second becum each year for me... plz god... snatching my life... am totally... can't control my tears...
  • Dec 19, 2012, 05:31 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Cry, get angry, be bitter, and then move on, You can not force someone to stay and be in a relationship.

    After time, you forget, after time you meet someone new. While 5 years is a while, in our life time, it is just a small part
  • Dec 19, 2012, 10:52 PM
    apslg
    How can I survive this time ,please giv me a path dear... every moment snatching me...
  • Dec 19, 2012, 11:45 PM
    ArmstrongMiller
    Go ahead. And move forward. You can talk to you friends... Do some exercises...
  • Dec 20, 2012, 12:32 AM
    apslg
    Can you tell me why she do this after 5 yrs...
  • Dec 20, 2012, 03:52 AM
    santosh_mahato
    Hi
    I know I how you are feeling because I am also in similer condition.

    Talk to her about what's the differeces are coming your way and why she is thinking like that.
    The good thing you can do is to talk to her and tell her everything which you have in your heart.
    How much you love her.

    Just tell her everything unconditionally without expecting anything from her side.

    I know this is not simple but this will give you some pease.


    Only you can do is to do whatever she likes and show her that you always take care of her.
    If you truly love her than show her your love to her.

    And remember one thing if she does not want to stay in relation with you than you can't force her to stay .

    Either she will understand you and you will get her or she will not the perfect for your love.

    Keep talking with your friends who can understand you.

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