I was with him for 3 years and we broke up a year ago. He has a girlfriend now and she's pregnant. When I first heard about it I was heart broken. He still calls me all the time. But lately he hasn't. I know he's having problems with her because I still go to his mothers house because she wants me too but, she tells me all the time about how him and her and they fight all the time.I see him sometimes but it's a quick hi and that's it. Im just confused because his mom tells me he's still loves me. But I just wonder, that if he still loves me then why doesn't he call me anymore I really miss him and I want him back so bad I just don't know how to get him.

I'm sorry to hear about your loss, but at this point I don't think you can get him back. I think it will be healthier for you to move on. I would suggest that you cut all contact with him and his family. Do other things, enjoy singlehood.

Its even more difficult to say especially that his girlfriend is pregnant.

Yeah with a girlfriend that's pregnant!!
And one year later his mother telling you he still loves you!? she has really no right to do that and its extremyl stupid of her.

Cut contact with them all and move on...

I think its really worth asking yourself why you want him back. He is abusing the concept of love all over the place. And you are drawn to that. Not good. If not him, then you'll find another like him. Look at this about yourself before it allows you to accept the unacceptable again. You are worth more than abuse disguised as "love." This is not love, honey, its really not. Love is about mutual respect, trust and fidelity and especially clear, honest communication. What he is about (by your description) is selfish carelessness, infidelity and manipulation.

Oh gosh, what do you really think his mom would say. Look leave him and his family alone and stop talking to him even if he does call. You've wasted a year of your life on a false hope and now you shold move on and get a life you enjoy without him. Its not to late to find happiness if you accept that its over, and not healthy to be around his family, and get fed a load of crap.

If he is having a baby with someone else, he has moved on and so should you! There are many single men out there that I am sure would love to meet you. I have had my fair share of bad relationships, but I knew when to move on and honey you need to start moving! It does get better!

This was over a year ago. You still haven't accepted it and for you it won't be over until you do. Hanging around like a dog under that table for scraps isn't helping. Get away from all involved and start something new either with someone else or get to know yourself at this time so that you won't find yourself in this position in the future.

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Originally Posted by sommer marie

I was with him for 3 years and we broke up a year ago. He has a girlfriend now and shes pregnant. When i first heard about it i was heart broken. He still calls me all the time. But lately he hasnt. I know hes having problems with her because i still go to his mothers house because she wants me too but, she tells me all the time about how him and her and they fight all the time.I see him sometimes but its a quick hi and thats it. Im just confused because his mom tells me hes still loves me. But i just wonder, that if he still loves me then why doesnt he call me anymore i really miss him and I want him back so bad i just dont know how to get him.

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An ex is always an ex for a reason don't go back to the past